News flash to the press, its not the electric cars, the rockets, the concept of a social media platform, etc that makes these dudes undesirable. It is that they are genuinely shitty people that use the proceeds of those products to do shitty things.
Without reading the article I would add that most women aren’t into the whole “save the planet by breeding with genius alpha tech bro’s” fantasy. It might even be turn off.
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Right? I’m a swe, happily partnered up, and the times I was single, easily partnered up. The problem isn’t being a tech bro, the problem is being a fuckin wet noodle of a person. I’ve got the same hobbyist servers, the same half-finished coding projects I’ll never get done, the same 40k models, the same flab. I just also stand for good things and act on those beliefs, and live every day demonstrating that if you’re fash or fash-adjacent, you’re not safe here, and if you’re anti-those things then I’m great.
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Swede? Smokes Weed Everyday?
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In this context it means “Software Engineer”
Complicated…
I like guys like that, bad guys, I’m weird, nobody dates someone like me.
I think women almost never like guys in the tech field. Because they find something strange or not very incessant enough
For me it’s not just for people working in “immoral” tech, I also don’t date cops, landlords, people in the military or fossil fuels (might make exceptions for this one). For better or worse, whether you choose it or not, a job is a big part of someones life and it shapes who you are as a person.
I don’t think it’s that, it’s more like the intrepid dedication to work is a turn off for most people.
Dang I was going to be a tech bro so I could be rich but if these hoes are choosing morals over money then maybe I will just get a part time job somewhere instead.
Nah, the hoes will still show because money attracts spenders. These tech bros have the personality of cardboard probably, and they’re delusional like Thiel and trying to find the Antichrist or “everything is a network”
Bro name one thing not a network then
Damn, i bought a quarter zip and a vest. WTF.
If you think of them as ‘hoes’ it probably won’t make any difference, but good luck!
The second sentence in the subtitle states “It’s made getting laid a whole lot harder”. That sentence set the precedent for my comment.
The term is all semantics. I’m fine calling them women, men, trans, sexual partners, furries, one night stand, friends with benefits or whatever term fits best. You and I were just being sarcastic.
It’s all good, friend. We’re just shooting the shit here. :)
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Maybe they don’t think of all women as hoes but instead specifically want to attract women of the hoe variety?
There’s a pretty foolproof method of doing that. :)
There will always be ones who are there for rich ones.
We all suffer under capitalism.
Short answer: they are just so deattached from reality that a person who married a waifu pales in comparasion
Odd. A few of my buddies from grad school went to work for military contractors and if “I build inertial guidance systems for ballistic missiles” guy is happily married then maybe Palantir guy is just looking in the wrong place?
Most Americans don’t care about defense contractors. They hurt foreigners we don’t know, unlike Palantir which intentionally hurts Americans in addition to foreigners.
Skippable headline vs unskippable artwork
OK, framing it as just a tech company is kind of burying the lead. Yeah, a lot of them suck, but this is the nastiest evil one around.
Tesla and Palantir. I doubt anyone cares if you work for some no name enterprise company like Initech.
It’s Initrode now.
And, yeah, when I tell people I work in tech the response is either “cool” or questions about what we do and how we do it, from the more geeky people. But I also don’t work for a company that “shortens the kill chain” or “connects the supply chain to the kill chain”
EDIT : I want to be very clear that “Connecting the Supply Chain to the Kill Chain” is the real actual title of one of their advertising docs on their official website linked above.
Penetrode*
Palantir’s such a psychotically cringey company. Acting like flying a MacBook from a desk in Miami is some warrior shit. God I hate them so much. What’s worse is they actually do help kill people but never have to come face to face with it.
On top of that their cringe is infecting other tech companies. Like the term “forward deployed engineer”. Because you know, implying that you’re at war with your customers is definitely healthy and appropriate.
Even Tesla on paper builds cars. Yeah Elon is a Nazi, but it isn’t the panopticon company that’s also providing warcrimes software
In the industry Tesla is known for being incredibly hostile towards women who work there. But yeah I doubt most people outside tech would know that, though they probably wouldn’t be surprised.
Those guys are always coming in Saturdays and don’t have the time to be dating.
burying the lead
*lede
Ok, was surprised about that, so decided to look this up.
It turns out this is correct, the expression does tend to use “lede” though “lead” is also occasionally used. You could call that occasional usage just people making a mistake, except for one thing… “Lede” is just an archaic English form of the word “lead” and they both mean “to guide”. So “burying the lead” is exactly the same statement as burying the lede", but with an archaic word replaced with the same modern word. So my question is, is that wrong?
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I think i’m a different kind of tech bro. The foss/Linux kind of tech bro. Am I fucked?
We need a different term for the non-evil tech bros. That one’s been tainted.
We should call them tech assholes and keep bro positive.
Just gotta find a woman who pays for Google One and save her $ every month by hosting her files.
Bonus: she’s locked into your ecosystem (don’t do this)
Yep, and if you’re a real techbro, you start off by making the offering great. But then, you gradually enshittify it. Popups start coming up that ask her to consent to things she doesn’t really want forever, on unconscionable terms, but at first there is a ‘Yes’ or ‘Not now’ option. Behind the scenes, there are terms saying you can change the terms any time you like, and her only option is to leave within 14 days, and it is her responsibility to monitor the terms and stop using it if she doesn’t agree. You start silently changing the terms to allow you to opt her in by default to consent to things she doesn’t want. She opts out, so you change the terms again so she has no choice. All the while the service gets worse - but what’s she going to do, she’s locked in.
And that sort of thing is why working for companies known for doing the equivalent of the above but to the public is not going to get a good reaction.
It’s fair game after getting legally married, though.
If you go back to the 70/80s, computer guys were really nerdy hippies trying to hack consciousness itself and build new ways of relating…
What happened to tech kinda parallels what happened to Christianity.
Nah, being a man who’s into tech is a necessary but not sufficient condition to being a “tech bro”. That term has a whole bunch more baggage and I think very few people on the threadiverse qualify.
Nah that’s the only good kind of tech bro, foss is the backbone of everything great about technology :3
What you described is the polar opposite of the work done for Palantir.
You’re fine and noble. Just keep being you.
Thanks, I work for Omarchy /s
Thank u
youre allowed to call yourself a hacker instead of tech bro then
What constitutes being a hacker?
running
tr -dc ‘01’ < /dev/urandom | fold -w $(tput cols)
or any related variation of pibing /dev/urandom random places
Rollerblading between server racks
two keyboards
At the same time.
Do you wear a hoodie and work in dark room?
Hoodie, no. Dark room, yes.
Grab a hoodie buddy.
I dislike hoodies.
This has to be one of the worst takes I’ve ever seen on Lemmy
Sadly then you’re relegated to the “simple nerd” designator…please go stand in the corner, you’re blocking the line.
Oh.
Am I fucked?
You wish.
You might get lucky if you wear knee socks.
Will goth latinas be turned on by that?
Only if you use Arch, make sure to mention you do.
Does CachyOS count?
Hmmm we might need to poll goth latinas. I use CachyOS btw, so I’d like to know.
They got goth latinas in Australia?
I’m Canadian, I just like Pylova more than local instances :)
Good point actually, made me curious. 1.6% of Canadians identify as Latina vs 0.5% of Australia. Pretty exotic if you can find one who is also goth.
Can’t speak for general tastes, but I’m sure there’s a few directly into that.
I must find them.
Good fortune and fair winds! 🫡
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